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🟢 Three English Phrases When You Need to Talk to Your Boss (But No One’s in Trouble)

  • Jul 16, 2025
  • 2 min read

Do you ever feel like it’s awkward when it’s time to approach the boss? We’ve all been there.


In this post, we’ll lay out 3 real-life situations and how to handle them—especially if English isn’t your native language.


 We’ll show you how to:

 ✔️ Receive direction on a project

 ✔️ Bring up team issues

 ✔️ Follow up when your emails go unanswered


The key? 👉 Stay friendly, yet calm.


Why it works: It’s not an emergency. It’s just a chat. 🙂


Picture this: You need to talk to your boss. You’re not quitting. No one’s getting fired. But it is important. You just need… a minute of their time.


📌 The Formula:

 ✔️ Use their name in your greeting or request—it signals importance, but keeps it warm.

 

Example: 

  1. Hi Tom… 

  2. Tom! How’s it going? 

  3. Can I run something by you, Tom?


✔️ Be clear and quick. Especially with busy international bosses, short = doable.


✔️ Keep it simple. Don’t over explain. Say what’s necessary and important.


✔️ Follow up in writing. Confirm the time in Slack or Teams. Add it to their calendar. Make it easy to reschedule.


🗣️ What You Can Say:


  1. 📌 1. Project Questions or Direction

    “Tom, do you have a few minutes this week? I’d love to talk about [Project XYZ] and hear your thoughts so far.”


    ✅ For timelines, roadblocks, or a mid-project reset.


  2. 🤝 Team Tension or Weird Vibes

    “Tom, hi! I’ve noticed something about how things are going in the team—I’d like to discuss some ideas. Can we connect this week?”


    ✅ Calm, neutral, and proactive.


  3. You’ve Emailed Twice. No Dice.

    “How are you today, Tom? If it’s ok, can I stop by before we all head out? I’d love to get something on the books to finish up that email thread we started.”


    ✅ Moves things forward IRL—without sounding pushy. Keeps it neutral. 


💬 These aren’t scripts. They’re strategy.


😎 Practice in a mirror. Repeat these phrases a few times, so you can use them when you need them. 


✌️Preparation > Stress. You’ve got this! 🤙


And at Aurum Borealis, we help professionals like you shine—clearly and confidently.

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